Kazander has been evolving lately… or devolving, depending on your point of view.
He’s never been a masochist of any kind. He tolerates pain because he knows I’m a sadist, but it’s never been his thing. CBT is something I only make him endure rarely, since he’s always hated it. Continue reading →
1. Hurting others for sexual pleasure: the gaining of sexual gratification by causing physical or mental pain to other people, or the acts that produce such gratification
2. Being cruel for fun: the gaining of pleasure from causing physical or mental pain to people or anymals
3. Cruely: great physical or mental cruelty Continue reading →
Figging is probably one of my top-ten favorite things to do. Kazander is notorious for not letting go of his self-control when we play, and he’s not a huge fan of pain. It’s amazing how well an innocent little piece of ginger can fix those problems. Continue reading →