So it occurs to me that newer readers, who haven’t read my 300+ posts, may stumble onto the blog, read a post or two, and get a very narrow view of who I am. So below is a selection of posts that provide some insight into who I am and what I do. Some of these may be repeated if they fall into two different categories.
Ones that are bolded are posts I consider the “most important.”
Me as a Dominant:
How I “discovered” I was kinky.
My very first kinky sexual experience.
Why I love humiliation, and the effect it has on my boys.
My thoughts on titles and honorifics.
My morals, and why I don’t abuse my subs.
My thoughts on strapless strapons.
Why I seriously love submissive men.
Confidence really is everything.
Why I’m polyamorous, and my views on love.
Some thoughts on how I break my boys.
More thoughts on how I break my boys.
Why my subs are the kings of my world.
How I use rules and protocols to affect a sub’s mindset.
My thoughts on Female Supremacy.
A useful flowchart to look at before messaging me.
My subs are absolutely allowed to initiate play and touch me.
An open letter to male Doms. Seriously, if you’re a male Dominant, read this.
A guest post I wrote for Kink Craft.
Me as a vanilla woman:
Why I hate Breast Cancer Awareness Month.
Why I’m not a fan of feminazis.
Confidence really is everything.
Some stuff that happened when I was a kid, and how it affects me now.
Why I’m polyamorous, and my views on love.
The trials and tribulations of big breasts.
Coming to terms with some family shit, after only 30 damn years.
How not to piss me off while driving.
More stupid family shit because my relatives are children.
Dealing with my own health shit.
Harmless cancer is a thing, apparently.
Me in my relationships:
What happens when my subs get old and their health fails?
Why I’m not worried about being found out.
Some thoughts on how I break my boys.
More thoughts on how I break my boys.
How I can respect someone I have the power to punish.
Why my subs are the kings of my world.
How I use rules and protocols to affect a sub’s mindset.
My subs are absolutely allowed to initiate play and touch me.
I’m generally not the right person to ask any relationship question.
Obedience is really important.
My subs:
Reminding Kazander what it means to be obedient.
No more switching for Kazander’s birthday.
Looking back on the past year of owning Steel.
A post about Sounder’s new blog, and some insight into training subs.
Officially a sissy cumdumpster.
My thoughts on D/s and BDSM in general:
Dominants should be held to a high standard.
How to keep a BDSM relationship healthy.
Submission as a noun and a verb.
Why “No Limits” isn’t a bad thing.
Mistakes men make when introducing their partner to BDSM.
How to avoid (and fix) complacency in a BDSM relationship.
What subs do wrong when messaging Dominant women.
How a sub should approach Dominant women.
How I can respect someone I have the power to punish.
My thoughts on Female Supremacy.
I’m not the only one who prefers submissive men.
The difference between BDSM relationships and abuse.
A post about Sounder’s new blog, and some insight into training subs.
Advice for women interested in Femdom.
It’s everyone’s responsibility to educate.
A wake-up call for submissive men.
Domina Jen 