So being sick has had one blaringly positive benefit. My nausea has made it impossible for me to eat anything, and that blasted right through the plateau I’d been experiencing in my weight loss for the last couple of weeks. I stepped on the scale this morning, and I have officially lost 50 pounds.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not done, I’m not even close to done, and I still have a very long way to go. But that’s one hell of a milestone, and I’m pretty damn proud of myself. Every pound I lose puts me one step closer to my goal (and for the record, I don’t have a goal weight. I have a goal size. Once I reach my goal size, I’m done losing, no matter what the scale says. And I will always be thick. I love my curves and my tits and ass way too much to ever give them up).
So the headache still has me a little foggy, but I’m getting better with each day, and am ready to jump back into life. On the kink front, I’ve got sissy coming over on Friday night, and I’m going over to sounder’s on Sunday.
The Femdom group I was helping lead here in town went to hell, and all of the co-leaders ended up leaving on the same day. So we’re going to get together and figure out what we’re going to do from here, and that’ll be a lot more fun and a lot less stress. Because despite the tension, I enjoyed the group, enjoyed the members, and enjoyed what I was doing. I don’t want it to stop, and thankfully, neither do the other two leaders who left. So that’s exciting, I’m stoked to see where that goes.
And next week, we’re going to the San Diego zoo to let the spawn see the polar bears (her favorite animal). It’ll be interesting trying to drag her away from the polar bear exhibit to see the rest of the zoo, but we’ll make do.
Oh, and I found a hotel with “kids’ suites.” The kids and parents have separate bedrooms, and two separate TVs. So with any luck, we’ll be able to have at least some mild fun while we’re on the trip. And it’ll give me a chance to really test out the new plug I got, to see if it really is as comfortable for long-term wear as it says it is. The longest kazander has been able to keep a plug in is about 2 hours. I want to break that record.
So yeah, four days in San Diego will be nice. Kazander and I are still working on getting back to where we used to be, and even though a family vacation with a 4-year-old isn’t what most people would consider a “sexy” time, getting away together might help us a lot. I know that after we got back from the honeymoon, the energy was fantastic. Maybe this vacation will have a similar effect. I’m sure the spawn will be worn out from all the activities during the day,
Oh, and by an amazing stroke of luck, kids admission tickets to the zoo are completely free during the month of October. I didn’t know that until I went to book the trip. October is our “vacation month,” because September is the end of the quarter and fiscal year, and kazander’s job is crazy-busy, and he can finally relax and take a breather once October 1st comes around. That, and neither of us are big on crowds, and by waiting until October, most places still have decent weather, and all the kids are back in school. So every year in October, we’re going to have a family vacation. Next year is Disney Land, and I think the year after that is going to be Sea World.
Fun side fact: Nevada has either the worst or second worst public education system in the country, depending on the site you look at, with one of the highest dropout rates and highest teacher-to-student ratios in the country, and Clark County (where Vegas is) ranks in the 48th percentile in reading and math when compared to the rest of the state’s counties. So yeah, the spawn will either be in private school or home school.
Lots of fun!