Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Well sure, there’s a lot of overlap there. One example that immediately comes to mind is that kazander and I are both football fans, and we both love a good bet. So we’ll make bets on the games, betting certain activities or privileges. Sometimes it’s difficult to agree on terms, because I could easily just tell him to do whatever I want, and don’t need to win a bet to do it. But we manage, and it makes things interesting.
When watching favorite TV shows, I’ll occasionally not allow him to fast-forward commercials, and will spend that time edging him or sitting on his face or whatever, instead. It’s just long enough to frustrate the hell out of him, and then, when the show comes back on, I sit back down to watch it.
Those are just the two examples that come to mind, but there are a lot more.