Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
Okay, first of all, I have to ask. I just have to ask.
Am I the only one who was always kinky? Did everyone else discover it when they were older? Like, how does that work? How do you discover that you’re submissive, or Dominant? Seriously, I’m genuinely curious and want to know. If you didn’t discover you were submissive or Dominant until adulthood, and are fine with extremely personal questions, email me. I want to pick your brain.
So, for the sake of this question, we’ll start with when I entered the world of kink, at 16. You’ve already seen from before that earlier than that, I was pretty irresponsible and wildly unethical, and had no fucking clue what I was doing. And while, yes, fingering a reluctant boy was hot, it was pretty obvious that I had no business having that kind of power over someone else at 15 fucking years old. I was an idiot.
Hell, even after I met my mentor, I was an idiot. I was still a teenage girl, after all. And I loved sex. Seriously, it shocks me to this day that I got out of high school without getting pregnant or contracting a disease. I was promiscuous as hell, and I don’t know, I probably would have even tried to fuck my mentor if we’d had that kind of relationship (for the record, because I’ve been asked this six million times, no, I never fucked him. No, I never touched him sexually. No, he never touched me sexually. It wasn’t like that, and don’t fuck with his memory by entertaining that thought. It’s disgusting).
So we’ve established that I was young, stupid, and ignorant when I entered kink. Have my interests and perceptions changed since then?
I sure fucking hope so.