Lots of Questions

Okay, so all of a sudden my inbox has exploded with questions.

too many questions

If you’re one of those who sent a message, please be patient. I will get to you as fast as possible. I have a kid and the holidays driving me nuts now, so I can only do so much. And I’m answering them in the order they were received.

Okay, so here’s the first one.

Dear Domina Jen,
What do you enjoy more? Causing pain, humiliating your husband, or cuckolding him? What does he like best?

Curious Rat

Dear Curious Rat,

The quick answer is that it depends on my mood. Although the cuckolding thing is still in the works, and hasn’t actually become a reality yet. If I absolutely had to pick one, I would probably say humiliating him and treating him like crap is my favorite. But I would be a sad panda


if I had to live without the occasional beating, flogging, slapping, whatever. And the cuckolding is something I definitely want, but can live without.

His favorite, without a doubt, is humiliation. He doesn’t have a masochistic bone in his body, and he’s not thrilled about cuckolding, either. But humiliation is something he craves, and wants almost all the time. He tolerates my sadism when the mood strikes, but he certainly doesn’t like it, and he can’t handle much more than some mild play.

So, in summation, humiliation is our favorite.

3 thoughts on “Lots of Questions

  1. writingthebody says:

    ah they are all such fun! The only thing to remember is that cuckolding involves a third person, and that person needs to be respected – sometimes that falls short. Ideally you should all be true friends. That is the only time it ever worked for me….

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