Ask a Domina

Hi there,
I’ve had a cuckold fetish for a long time, but I’m trying to understand why. What is it about a woman forcing another man’s huge cock onto me do I find so arousing. her forcing it into my mouth, and then having him cum in my mouth and on my face, then she takes his big cock, and wipes the cum all over my face. It seems like this would be a major turn-off to most guys, so why do I desire it?


Signed, Amazed by Size

Amazed by Size,

Oh dear me, this comes up a lot. But really, what is it that makes any of us gravitate toward one fetish or another?

I get the impression from your message, though, that you think you’re “different,” or “abnormal.” And that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Cuckolding is a wildly popular fetish, and you’re not alone in that desire. Sure, the term cuckolding means different things to different people; some desire being forced by a woman to be fucked by another man that is in some way more dominant. Some desire watching their wife/girlfriend/whatever fuck another man. Some even enjoy the thought of their wife/girlfriend/whatever becoming impregnated by the more dominant man. Different strokes an’ all.

But it all boils down to the same thing. There’s a thrill there, for you dear cuckies. A thrill of being humiliated and emasculated in that very specific way. Perhaps that’s the only type of humiliation you enjoy, or perhaps it’s tied in with an over-all submissiveness. Everyone is different.

Yes, you should always reflect and try to figure out why you are the way you are. Everyone should. But don’t ever be ashamed of it, just because it’s not the accepted societal norm. Normal is boring, anyway.

What she said.

What she said.

Embrace who you are. You like when a woman smears another man’s cum on your face? Fantastic! Throw a party. And then find a woman (or man, or in-between) whose kinks match yours (the internet makes that a hell of a lot easier) and live happily ever after in kinky, cum-filled, cuckolding bliss.

6 thoughts on “Ask a Domina

  1. B. K. Hung says:

    Bloody hell! It was a turn on (and eye opener of sorts) reading this post. Very fascinating. I agree with you completely!

    “Throw a party. And then find a woman (or man, or in-between) whose kinks match yours … and live happily ever after in kinky, cum-filled … [way].”

    Wise words.

    • Domina Jen says:

      Thanks! I’m glad you enjoyed reading it. I definitely think that all sorts of kink should come out of the shadows. Some people will judge, like some people always do, but most will be accepting and tolerant. That acceptance will give people permission to be different, and will help lots of people truly look at themselves without the shadow of “something must be wrong with me.”

  2. writingthebody says:

    Yes – one thing to look at – keep the respect happening….we may have desires like this, but we need to make sure we do not use people in our own quests for humiliation….unless that really works for those people….if that makes sense….

  3. B. K. Hung says:

    Reblogged this on ballsakhung and commented:
    Man to Mutt 5

    This is a great piece on cuckolding. The dictionary definition reads as:
    “1. (of a man) make (another man) a cuckold by having a sexual relationship with his wife. And 2. (of a man’s wife) make (her husband) a cuckold.”

    What I love about Domina Jen is her frank style. She cuts to the bone and tells it how it is. Her words and phrases are vivid. And her own anecdotes (in her blog, geneally) are deeply fascinating at any rate.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s